Ok so last friday saturday night i got all dressed up and met some friends for a drink. it was a gay bar with a drag show so no major worries. however i did have to walk out of my apt and through another building and a parking lot to get to my car.
it was dark, which of course makes it easier to pass, and i walked by a women who looked at me and said hello and that was all. she never gave me the double take i was expecting.
the next day my neighbor said he had seen my girlfriend walking out of the apt last night, from his unit, and told me she was hot. i blushed for a second as i am married and my wife nor any other female was anywhere near my apt for a week. again it was dark but he not only thought i was a female. but a hot one.
i also had men at the bar give me double takes when they saw me standing to pee (LOL) too many rum and cokes; and told me they thought i was a woman at first glance in the bar.
so now i feel so much more confident, at least at night, and dont feel like everyone will be staring as i walk by, which is all i really ask for. i just wanna blend in with the girls and be seen as such. anyway i'm very excited and hopfully will try to do something a little braver next time but not sure what....perhaps...daylight.