I have been reading a lot about telling your wife or wife finding about discussions in here. i have been struggling with this thought of whether to tell her or not ever since i joined this forum 2 months back. so finally i thought of asking some advice from all of you based on my observation of my wife.
we have been discussing women at times to get ourselves excited. i really like doing that with her as it excites both of us. she notices women and their figure as i do. she even used to get excited looking at her own boobs (not heard her confess that in long time though)
also, at times at night she touches my chest and acts to squeeze as if it was breast. she also tries to form my cleavage. now it does mean she does this all the time but am just citing some instances. for example.. at times she joking says.. that may she is a lesbian.
you think this should make my disclosure and more importantly acceptance easier? sometimes i wonder that she might actually enjoy having me like that.. specially on bed and we may have better sex life. or is this just a wishful thinking.. and reality might be more like what i have read here?
Love
Ritu