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    100 CD Things To Do Before Shuffling Off?

    You know all those lists of "100 Places To See Before You Die," etc? Should we have one of our own?

    Maybe someone better skilled than I can take the resulting list and put it into some sort of priority order.

    [SIZE="3"]100 CD Things To Do Before Shuffling Off[/SIZE]

    Starters:

    Have your ears pierced.

    Wear acrylic nails for two weeks or more.

    Go to a spa and get a facial.

    Cook dinner and wash dishes for a year.
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    Get some bikini tan lines.

    Wear a wedding dress.

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    Go Full time with undies.
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    Walk past a group of construction workers.

    Ride a cable car in San Francisco.
    It takes a real man to wear a dress.

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    Go to a nice dress shop and try on all the dresses in your size.

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    Have a bra fitting.
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    Answer the front door regardless of what I'm wearing.

    Politely decline an invitation to go with him to his room.

    Share my dressy photos with my kids and grandkids.

    Have one of the women at work ask for a clothing or makeup opinion.
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    Come out to entire family (I'm working on that), have painted finger nails all the time that match my toe nails. Attend a CD conference. Go out with my wife dressed (not likely). At least I wear panties full timer.

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    This is a great thread!

    -go to a big city transclub
    -have a professional makeover/photoshoot
    -tell your kids that you dress
    -have a gurlfriend party and get pissed.
    -Do a amateur drag show

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    Receive a drink courtesy of "the handsome gentleman at the end of the bar".
    Receive a daring but clever compliment from a sober guy while clubbing.
    Devote an entire weekend to shop while dressed enfemme.
    Spend an entire day at the beach wearing a tiny bikini.
    Pole dance for a polite male audience.
    I'll be ready when I'm ready

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    Catch your dreams before they slip away
    Dying all the time / Lose your dreams
    And you will lose your mind. / Aint life unkind?
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    Here are some of the things that i would like to do before i kick the bucket, 1)have a relationship with my wife where we shop together and buy gifts of clothing for each other 2)to have burnt all underpant year before i have died and have a draw containing female underwear only 3)go shopping dressed as a female 4)grow some little boobies and have a more feminime body in terms of shape 5)have more people know who i really am- Lesley 6)travel the African bush in a 4x4 dressed as a lady and a car full of only female clothing,and have my wife with me 7)have a group of crossdresser freinds 8)have a career which allows me to dress more feminine 9)as a biker go to a motorbike rally and walk around there wearing a mini skirt and boots 10)be cremated in a beautiful dress.

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    Very good insight in this thread, and I like the answers: like the pole dancing

    But what I want to do before "shuffling off" is actually boring, but a big step for me:

    The main thing I want to do ( since I'm still closeted ) is actually go out dressed for the first time.
    Also; be able to dance in a club while dressed.

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    I'd like to have a day out where I get a makeover, manicure/pedicure, go shopping for an outfit, including shoes and go out for the evening,all with my lovely wife.( She gets the same treatment I do) Also would like to renew my wedding vows with both my wife and I wearing wedding gowns, attend a cd/tg/ts event, and make some face to face CD friends!

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    Go on a girls night out as one of the girls and be accepted as one of them.
    Do the everyday things such as food shopping, the school run, etc, as just another woman going about her daily life.
    Live my life on day to day basis the same as any woman does.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lesley jay View Post
    be cremated in a beautiful dress.
    Get off... what a waste of a dress !!!




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    So thanks lisa for taking a bloody great sledgehammer to mine you certainly made short work of it

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    1. Wear a bathing suit to the hotel pool.
    2. March in one of the Pride Parades.
    3. Wear a light floaty skirt on a breezy day.

    Working on it
    4. Tell your family and loved ones.

    For the future
    5. Get a glamour makeover/photo shoot with a pro.
    6. Dance a waltz in a gown with a guy
    7. Get a manicure/pedicure
    8. Take a weeks vacation as a woman
    9. Get a professional wax job (yes...there too!)
    10. Accept yourself as a beautiful, sensual, person
    Sally

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    There was a recent thread about a "CD bucket list", which I would provide a link for if I weren't on my iphone (no copy/paste feature).

    Mine might be:
    Be one of the brides in a massive femme lesbian wedding.
    Own a bridal salon (more of an unattainable dream really).
    Write a book about my life experiences.
    Get breast implants.
    Become a source of inspiration through modeling fame or other success.

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    be accepted by all.
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    I'd like to attend one of the big conferences, like a Be-All or a Southern Comfort, or the Vegas thing. I'd also like to do a nice photo shoot in the wedding dress of my dreams.

    Any money found in the laundry is MINE!


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    I don't plan to shuffle off.. Lol.
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    Hmm....

    1) go to a formal wearing a ball gown
    2) one word: PEDICURE
    3) bikini wax (ouchies!)
    4) dance provocatively with a cute (and yes, hopefully sober, thanks Gina!) guy
    5) probably most important (for me anyway): ACCEPT YOURSELF!

    GREAT THREAD!
    Last edited by josie_S; 06-10-2009 at 10:16 AM. Reason: type-OHs

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    Debs i might as burn the dress with me as it would be far to big to leave with my wife.

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    Thank you.....what great fun!

    Here is my list:
    1. get breast implants,
    2. fly in a plane as Annie,
    3. take a vacation to a beach and spend time in a bikini,
    4. be able to be Annie 24/7 or not,
    5. be totally accepted by my wife and the two of us share #'s 2 and 3.
    6. do whatever anyone else comes up with that would be totally cool!

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    I should live so long but I want to see a world where people can dress as they wished. (add world peace and hitting the Lotto and I have the trifecta of things that will never happen)

    I listed all the the things above and went through to see what I had and had not done (or wanted to do) and I am not doing bad.

    Things to get done:

    Acrylic nails and or full time colored fingernail polish

    Spa- for everything Be pampered

    Come out to (rest) of family and be accepted

    Be flirted with by a "good" looking guy (not the ones who don't have a full set of teeth or haven't showered recently), OR girl who wants a friend no matter what they wear.

    Shop en femme

    wear a bikini on the beach and HAVE the body to pull it off (will settle for a female Pro volleyball body...thats doable)

    I don't have to drive the bike but being on the back and being a BB

    To be happy and carefree once again, like I was before, to be me no matter how I present. I accept myself I am just not in the happy place right now

    Cremate me, in a dress or naked. and I hope that when that happens there is a spirit life so I can watch all my friends here grow and become the best they can be

    Man that was depressing but nothing on that list is impossible. after the first paragraph
    Last edited by Lorileah; 06-10-2009 at 12:10 PM.
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    - Go a year without once wearing trousers. Skirts, dresses, or leggings ONLY!
    - Be invited to a party and be specifically asked to dress femme.
    - Go to work on a regular basis dressed femme.
    - Appear on stage in fully feminine attire, in a cross-dressing role, or, even better, in a woman's part.
    - Have my spouse go out with me while I'm dressed femme.

    (But I don't expect ANY of these to actually happen. Sigh.)

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