Hi, to all that reply, How many of you have actually met someone from here, anywhere or online? set up a date of sorts an outing? gotten dressed up? gone out? and spent the evening at a club, lounge bar, movies, where ever? only to be totally disappointed either from the start or during the evening or at the ending of it? Only because they didn't meet up to my or your expectations. I have had several meetups and the majority of them 8/10, went south quickly.. are my or your standards to high? what is acceptable and what isn't ? I try to blend in but also look good. not call unwanted attention to myself.