"Because equality is not a concept. It's not something we should be striving for. It's a necessity. Equality is like gravity. We need it to stand on this earth as men and women. And the misogyny that is in every culture is not a true part of the human condition. It is life out of balance, and that imbalance is sucking something out of the soul of every man and woman who's confronted with it."
--Joss Whedon, to a reporter who asked, "So why do you create these strong women characters?"
Why shouldn't you speak to people, anyone, while you're out - isn't that just a normal part of life?
Some people will read you, accept that - in fact put it to one side as irrelevant, you've got as much right to be yourself as the next man/woman/in-betweenie?
This question isn't really about them, though, is it? It's about you and your own self-acceptance. That's not dependent on other people..
Nicki
[SIZE="1"]Moi?[/SIZE]
T o me,it is no big deal.Flirt if you want,or be as cold as ice if that is your bag.You have to have a thick skin if you are to survive in the outside world.If he is real horn dog and you are having none of it,whip out the pepper spray..be careful of the wind direction!
Cheese it! ......mom's home
Lots a macho girls in here tonight,ball busting, punching, breaking off body parts.... Saturday night in Dogwood!
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All depends. If his line is old and tired, BUZZ OFF time. If he seems genuine, it's chat time.
If it's me talking to someone as hot as Kelly, then hopefully 2 things. She would be flattered by someone my age being genuine and not coming off as some old perv and that her boyfriend wouldn't beat the crap out of me.
Kellycan,
You are absolutely right! I'm not afraid of breaking a nail or ruffling up my hairdo. Bring em on!! There is nothing sexier then kicking some guy's ass while wearing a short skirt and 5 inch heels.
Dogwood?!! Well, arrff!! Arrff!!
Be safe. Be smart. Kick em in the ass!
Dawn Marrie
CANCER IS A BITCH SO YOU HAVE TO BE MORE OF A BITCH TO BEAT IT.
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Actually I enjoy it when a man notices me..well usually. Just be you and enjoy having his attention. After all, you are a woman!
roni
i was really shy at first cause i reall didnt know how to react.but th emor it happenede the more confortable i felt. now i flirt i love the feeling..makes me feel so sexy and womanly.
I had a guy compliment me in a store the other day...he said that I was a well dressed young woman!...well he was about 75 (laughs) I just thanked him and carried on...I don't think he even worked out that I wasn't a woman, or if he did he acted as if it was the most normal thing in the world
I just try to be as natural in my femininity as I can, though I have not had to worry about it much.
warmly, Linnea
Warning: This post may contain up to 63% post consumer recycled Sarcasm ... or Peanuts."
"Sammy, really next time do try to make your point without being quite so abrasive." -RD
well i would be flattered perhaps, anyway no chance of this happening since i dont go ut dressed up
urmi
I love when a man approaches me when I'm Dawn. Why wouldn't I? After all, here I am looking all feminine and when he talks to me I feel that he is accepting my feminine self. That's what I'm trying to do - be accepted as feminine.
Dawn
I think I would feel flattered providing he wasn't too pushy, creepy, etc. Once asked my wife how she would feel if we were out and I was being flirted with - she thought it would be funny!
If he is nice, friendly, treats me as a lady and make me feel more feminine...I will thank him with a kiss on his right cheek!
[SIZE="3"]Marisa[/SIZE][SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
"There are no ugly women, only lazy ones”
[SIZE="2"]Helena Rubinstein[/SIZE]
Hmmmmm, we want to be accepted......but some gurls here would pepper spray or tell them to buzz off.....not a good way to be accepted. I myself have been "chatted up" by male admirers. I enjoy it and talk with them. You should feel complimented that they would rather talk to you than laugh at you or want to beat your butt.
I agree. If someone approaches me I judge each situation accordingly, If the man treats me with respect whether he knows or doesn't know I'm not a GG then I return the respect, same goes if i'm dress as a male. Not every male that is attracted to or respectful to T girls is a perv, Aren't we as T girls to some degree attracted to T girls in some way whether it's sexual or just because we have something in common?
Now if the male does or says something that i'm not comfortable then I would deal with his advances in whatever manner necessary to let him know i'm not interested. Being accepted as a T-girl has it's hurdles but acting with dignity sure can improve the way we are viewed.
I have been approached by males who were quite respectful, and yes even flirted with me. I enjoy talking with men who find me attractive, doesn't mean I have to have sex with them. Heck I've had quite a few woman approach me who indicated right from the get go that they were interested in sex.
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Fulfilling a Lifetime Dream of Living as a Woman in My Adult Years. Ten Years Living 24/7 as a Mature Lady
My Love of Cat's Eye Frames, Bangles, Red Lipstick, Nails, & Cheeks, Comes From My Mother - An Irish Beauty
I'm Always Rainbow Proud
Most of the people who speak to me are strange.
Many of the people who I speak to think I am strange.
It takes a real man to wear a dress.
I am flattered and it happens quite often. However it also happens quite often that I'm in a place where it would happen quite often.
Life is for living, life is fun, enjoy it. You can always turn him down if you don't fancy him.
I strut my stuff, I feel so proud,
I need to shout, to scream out loud,
I am Tricia I am she,
I am who I want to be
http://tricia-dale.blogspot.com/
Don't know yet, when I go out I'll let you know!!
Did you learn anything from your mother? Tsk, tsk, tsk, Bad girl, bad girl ...
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Claudia Dawn