Between male and female, before crossing over. Im curious if any of you can share perspective on how far a male can feminize and still pass as a male especially at work.
Im sadly past growing my own hair, but I am thinking about beard removal and either androgen blockers or small doses of estrogen. Ive longed for a feminine body as long as I can remember, Im in my early 40s and am thinking, perhaps foolishly, that I could pass as a man by day and be my self underneath.
I thought of this because I have a few openly gay professional friends who are now in their 60s and loving life and Im getting tired of self denial and longing. But being gay and being trans are two very different things socially. Im halfway through my career and am not brave enough to do a full on transition, not in this country anyway.
So is it all or nothing?