I'm a natural researcher. I analyze. I pattern-match. I form hypotheses. I ask questions. I read material elsewhere and I ponder how it would translate into the CD/TG world, and I write up the analogy and post it for feedback and reality-testing.
Perhaps I should simplify the situation under test:
If you happen to be a MTF CD or TG, and if it happens that your partner disapproves of you going out for the evening or "doing things" or "hanging out" with women who are not relatives, then have you found in practice that your partner also disapproves of you doing similar activities with male CD/TG (especially if they are dressed) because to your partner it "feels like" you are going out with a woman?
(And to clarify, the answer for me is "My partner thinks of male CD/TG/TS as strange or weird males, no matter how they are dressed, and is concerned far more about me becoming 'weirder' by associating with such people than she is concerned about the hypothetical possibility of my 'getting involved' with one of them.")