wow
pattie you have just described my feelings and my life in a way i have never been able to express but i just could not find the words,
julia has purged on many occasions and it is soo hard to deal with the after effects and how it changes your SO so completely
there was an occasion when juila wanted to purge and get rid of all her things but i told her no i said that she did not really want to she was being made to feel like she should and that if she threw all her stuff out i would just bring it back in for her, because julia is a part of who she is and i will never try to change that again. i feel so gulity because at the very beggining i was trying to get her to stop but now i try to encourage her to express her self
But im glad that you can all see that sometimes when you purge, for those of us that are still finding a happy balance, this can be extremely confusing and even harder to comprehend than just expressing who you are
Thank you thankyou for starting this post
Kelly