Do you enjoy the “discomforts” (if any) of crossdressing?
I’m sure we all know that a certain amount of discomfort, if not down right pain , can be involved in dressing like a woman. Examples include tucking the boys and the little man away for a more feminine appearance; or the cramps you can get from walking in heels that are too high, too cheep, or for too long; or maybe the shortness of breath you can get from that oh so tight corset; or my personal favorite: the pinch of too tight clip-on earrings. It could also be as simple and painless as just the hassle of having to use the bathroom while wearing panty hose.
Just to make it clear, I’m not into S&M of any kind. In fact I find pain to be an absolute turn off sexually. When in drab I usually go out of my way to be as comfortable as possible.
That being said I find these tiny little discomforts to be stimulating. They are sweet little reminders of that fact that I’m dressing, and more importantly feeling, like a woman… or as close to as I’m ever going to get. It’s not a sexual arousal, but more of a feeling of sensuality that usually comes with my dressing enfemme. I also find the feelings of pleasure and relaxation I get from crossdressing to more than compensate for any minor discomforts I have to “suffer” through.
How about the rest of you? (And yes, I know that most of the above discomforts are fixable, but that’s not the point.) Do you find them stimulating or are they just something to fix?