Love to dress, and that's enough.
LauraL
Just a crossdresser here too. I don't feel that I have a female persona, and I don't feel any change in sexual appetites. I just want to wear fun stuff.
I just don't feel that either of those terms (Transgendered or Transsexual) fit me properly. Look at them more closely...Trans-Gendered, Trans-Sexual. I'm gendered and I'm sexual, but nothing has transitioned or is in-transition. It's always been there, and it's always been me.
(Also, I look at the term "Gender" as applying to your plumbing, where the term "Gender Role" is the idea of how a gender is supposed to behave.)
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We're here for a good time, not a long time.
So have a good time. The sun can't shine everyday.
Yes, I am a crossdresser, in a loving and happy relationship with the most wonderful wife. Like Terry, it's lingerie that does it for me, particularly sexy lacy underwired bras and matching panties. Just got the most lovely pinstriped teddy with suspenders, and I feel so good wearing it with lace top stockings and my favourite bra and g strings.
I want no more than this - to feel feminine, but stay happy as I am.
i do it but i just started experimenting right now but i havent gotten to going out in public a cd yet but want to
Please don't read this as me recruiting more for my style of dressing, I'm asking this out of legitimate curiousity and desire to learn more about a perspective different from my own. For those of you on here insist that you are only a CD and not transgendered, why is it so important for you to present as female if you do?
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~Riley
Check out my trans themed standup on YouTube!
My Tumblr Blog
That's me! A crossdresser only.
But, ny desire is to dress in the clothes that I enjoy and then go out into the world.
Rachel Lea
To me it just seems that when go for the clothes I really want to wear, they always come out super-girly. I guess I just like the styles and colours.
I also don't really make a conscious effort to make my face appear feminine, I just try to make the makeup match, and accent my features. Choosing mostly pinks and light blues tends to make the whole ensemble pretty girly, but that's the way I like it.
We're here for a good time, not a long time.
So have a good time. The sun can't shine everyday.
I'm a crossdresser, but if someone wants to call me transgendered that's ok too. Karren, that was a great clip!
Dana Fleming
ok I am one CD
WHEN IN STRESS WEAR A DRESS
BE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF IT ALL YOU GOT
Yup, I am just a Crossdresser also and happy with just that.
Stephanie
Lady on the outside, but man underneath!
I am a crossdresser and a little Bi-Curious. I work as a woman and enjoy wearing cute outfits and shoes to the office everyday. Took me many years to realize my goal and I am enjoying every minute.
Me too. And please don't take that as a put down of anyone else.
Jaydee
Hi Stephanie:
You must have been reading my mind.
I could not have expressed myself any better than you have done. Your words are my exact feelings.
I too lost my wife to cancer but I was not into crossdressing until after she passed away. I seldom leave the house unless I am dressed.
Enjoy.
Cindi
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I know I'm not TS but since I dress virtually every day I also know I'm more than a crossdresser. I gave up trying to figure out where I fit on the "gender scale" because it doesn't really matter. I'm just me.
You don't have to have been born female to enjoy being a girl
Sounds familiar.
This is totally related to the sexuality issue. I think it's probably got something to do with a fear of emasculation.
The delta between the presentation effort and the self identification around here is truly mind boggling, (or perhaps I'm easily boggled).
I mean seriously, browse through my photo albums and then imagine me saying that I just dressed up on a dare. ...yeah, that's what I would think too.
-Misty
Just a Crossdresser, though I do desire to be able to go out dressed without attempting to pass. Like many of us, or so I believe, that would be pure heaven. Know that wouldn't be accepted by society in my life, but I do push the envelope.
Add me to the ranks of crossdresser only. Too ugly to go out. But I do enjoy women's clothing.
Rey
I find closet CDing to be a big turn on!
I have NO DESIRE to present as a female to ANYONE ELSE!
(Except in pictures!)
If dressing up in a bunny suit got me as excited as appearing to be an attractive female, I'd be doing THAT instead!
I don't think I'm the ONLY ONE who feels this way!
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
[SIZE="3"]I also would say I am only a crossdresser. I have no desire to take this hobby any futher than presenting as a female on ocassion. I do love almost all things fem but, would not want try it 24/7/365. [/SIZE]
Marcia (LOVES) Blue
definately a crossdresser here.
If I were a van halen song, I'd be "best of both worlds"
If I were an oreo cookie, I'd be that thin gap between the creme and the cookie
If I were VCR, I'd be both VHS and beta
If I were a operating system, I'd be both a PC and linux
Why label ourselves, we are who & what we are. I love to wear womens clothes etc., just enjoy the experiance, I do.