Ladies I need ur counsel!

[Joy3]

About 3 weeks ago, while fully dressed, my 2 dogs needed to go out. It was daytime and because I was concerned about neighbors I decided to take them out the back door which is concealed by our garage. As I had them out a neighbor Tom appeared. He had come around the garage. I was stunned needless to say. He looked at me and smiled and said how lovely I looked. I thanked him but still had no idea of what to say. I finally said I need to take the dogs in and he asked if i had any coffee that he would like to join me for a talk. I felt i had no choice but to invite him in.

The talk consisted of him saying he would be happy to keep my dressing between he and I. However, he added, that is, if I would be willing to give him oral sex on occassion. What a spot to be in! I felt i had no option but to agree.

I work afternoons and my wife leaves for work early in AM. he now calls me when she has left for work 2 or 3 times a week asking me to dress for him and comes over for oral sex.

Yesterday he came over and surprised me by saying he wanted to go to bed with me.

I am feeling trapped as I don't want to be outed and worry where this is going. Has anyone had a similar situation and if so what did u do?

[Stina84]

That is a very unfortunate situation you are in. Because many of us keeps CD'ing a secret we are easy victims to sexual predators like your neighbour. What he does is simply disgusting.

You are the victim of a sex crime and I think the right thing would be to go to the police, maybe after having gathered some evidence like a recording where he blackmails you.

I completely understand if you are not willing to go to the authorities but maybe you can blackmail him back? If you record him blackmailing you and then threatens to send the recording to his wife and the police you might stop him. Nut the best thing to do would be to report him.

[Nikki A.]

Personally, I would stop this and tell him NO. This isn't what you want and it is akin to rape. If he outs you, he looks just as bad in that he forced you into having having sex with him. Do you think he wants to be outted too.

[dawnmarrie1961]

Joy, unfortunately you fell for the oldest trick in the book. The guy is a total pig!!
Even though it may mean being outed you need to tell this bozo in no uncertain terms that you aren't going to be played like that! The cats out of the bag anyway because this guy is gonna use his mouth more than you did!!

Be safe. Be smart.

Dawn Marrie

[StaceyJane]

My BS meter is going off like crazy.

According to an earlier post you already told your wife and she was okay with it.
So who was this pervert going to tell?

Plus you also posted once about meeting someone at a gay bar and having a wild night of sex.

[mklinden2010]

Assuming this is "for real", I'm not sure how it could get worse.

You may have to set up a camera and get the goods on this guy.

To make any claims, you'll need some evidence...

And, to handle it privately, you'll need some leverage...

There's no neat way out of this, if this is what's going on.

Nope...

If this is, "for real", then life as you used to know it will never be the same, so plan on moving, etc.

It may not come to that, but this sort of thing won't go away by itself...

And, proably won't no matter what you do.

It would be a better story if it is fiction.

Here's hoping...

[Elle1946]

I have never been that situtation like that but, it sounds like blackmail with a little bit of sexual harassment tossed in for good measure. You could threaten with a law suit which means that you would be out of the closet, but he also would be exposed. Another idea is that it is his word against your word about being dressed, and you do not know why he is causing you so much trouble. Good luck!!

[Tamara Croft]

My BS meter is going off like crazy.

According to an earlier post you already told your wife and she was okay with it.
So who was this pervert going to tell?

Plus you also posted once about meeting someone at a gay bar and having a wild night of sex.

I agree... I'm glad someone else does research on people before posting the

If this is true and you really did this, you have to be the most gullable person I've ever known... however... I'm not buying it... sounds more like a fantasy if you ask me... btw... your wife ever come to this forum?? do you really have a wife... if you do... I feel sorry for her... I'm not judging you for what you're doing, I just think you're a bit of an ass for bragging about it

[Sandra]

You know some people must think we are sooooo gullible.

[christina marie]

oh come on now ladies,nobody ever lies on the interwebbiethingie. . .

[kimdl93]

it this dilemma is true, its sad and criminal. If its made up, its just sad.

[Melamie2]

This is coming from the wife of a cd. As, I was reading your post, my first thought was "what's with this 'I felt I had no choice' crap"? By the time I was finished reading it, I was totally appalled that you even had the guts to put it in here.

Just in case it "may" be true, you should be ashamed of yourself. You have a wife and you took a vow to be true to her and only her. You broke it, bottom line.

And since everyone seems to agree that your story is not true, may I suggest you post stuff like that in a website called Lushstories.com. That's where it belongs.

Sorry ladies, but I felt the need to post on this one. LOL

[Kaitlyn Michele]

maybe next time you should call the police

of course, most likely the police will only help you if you agree to sexual favors which may include working for them as a sex slave, so please be careful!!

also, you could tell his SO, but of course she may force you to serve her and all her friends at the next tupperware party in a french maid outfit

[minalost]

it this dilemma is true, its sad and criminal. If its made up, its just sad.

Ditto.

[JustAlex]

My BS meter is going off like crazy.

I didn't know about the other posts and my BS meter burned to ashes.

But I could be wrong...

[Tamara Croft]

also, you could tell his SO, but of course she may force you to serve her and all her friends at the next tupperware party in a french maid outfit

That will be the next thread....

[EnglishRose]

maybe next time you should call the police

of course, most likely the police will only help you if you agree to sexual favors which may include working for them as a sex slave, so please be careful!!

also, you could tell his SO, but of course she may force you to serve her and all her friends at the next tupperware party in a french maid outfit

This made my day.

[Janet K.]

This is such BS!! Stuff like this should stay in the writer's section. I know the thread was only started two hours ago, so I am curious to see if Joy comes in to defend her story. I bet not.

[meri]

BS meter pegged at 100%

My advice to the original poster, find some other site to peddle your porn, we are NOT interested.

[MAJESTYK]

Interesting story........penthouse forum maybe? It does sound kind of familiar.

[Karen564]

[SIZE=2]Personally, I think it's a lovely Story... and maybe Penthouse can publish it for you..[/SIZE]

[SIZE=2]My only advise to you is, if you don't like the way he taste, just get some mouth wash...[/SIZE]

[Kimmy55]

[SIZE=2]Personally, I think it's a lovely Story... and maybe Penthouse can publish it for you..[/SIZE]

[SIZE=2]My only advise to you is, if you don't like the way he taste, just get some mouth wash...[/SIZE]

Personally I think she would rather enjoy the taste.My question is how *** ( pardon the pun ) Joy has not responded?

[Tomara]

I would have to agree that if this is really happening to you , you should seek some professional help and have enough self respect not to share the details here.
It will be interesting to see if you respond to any of our comments.
Tomara

[charlie]

Joy, you would not be where you are if you did not want to be having sex with your neighbor in the first place. He may have told people that you are a Cd...but you would have told them he wanted sex with you. If you don't want sex with him anymore, just say no.

[Bootsiegalore]

I agree with "get it on tape" and reverse blackmale him. I'll bet his wife would love to find out you are giving him BJs! Too bad you can not have her over to watch the tape and tape her watching it! Awsome revalations!

Sorry to hear of your situation though.

T