any more who cares...i guess i have been read but nobody has really confronted me ever...i agree the driveup window is where i fail..but the girls in the choke and puke are laughing and so am i...they have always been super nice though....i have been out for years (so i know makeup and the mannerisms) so i know how to deal with it which anymore is a who gives a damn....several weeks ago i walked into catherines as michelle and was greeted like a lady and sent right to the dressing rooms with SA toting many outfits...last week i went in as me and the same SA backed off and would only say "whats her size..you dont know her size?..i then replied "i am michelle" and the look on the face of the SA said it all.."im so sorry i can only see that now since you spoke"....one thing i have learned and this came from a SA...."this store is for 40plus aged women..the problem you and i have is in our mind we dont feel 45"....that pretty much sums it up...one thing many need to know if your loaded with testosterome yes you will struggle..i have little if any facial and leg hair, hips and a big butt plus being 5'10 or 5'9....and a small head....i have had several SA tell me my size is proportined like a womens and you have a small head...in fact my wig SA says the biggest problem she sees is guys have huge heads and it is the #1 problem they have with getting read...i dunno...i am with many here..who cares and go out and have fun...my biggest problem is guys wanting to pick me up and thinking i am a lady..been there many times..i hate guys so thats a big issue with me