1. Because it makes me feel sexy in a way that my masculine side fails at.
2. Currently single, but when I was dating, I kept my dressing to myself. I don't think the deception hurt any of my relationships. I've always been a private person and dressing has never been the centre of my life, so I can't imagine it effecting my relationships any more than the other activities that I kept from them (i.e. my writing).
3. Aside from one time I've always been more attracted to them than my girl side. Their sexiness is what I always aspired to.