Sometimes I think it is hard to convey to others, especially SO's how we really feel when we dress up. Many times I think they do not take us seriously or think it's some kind of kinky fetish and play along, as long as we don't do anything to threaten the relationship. It mostly involves deep feelings(sometimes feelings we feel may be "forbidden" to men as society sees it) and really getting in touch with them to the point where we have a workable self comfort level. Sometimes we don't even realize this for many years. So, tell us how you really feel when you dress and how it makes you feel about yourself and life. There are no wrong answers or expressions because it's how we feel about things that matters.