1. Straight crossdresser - probably married, kids, and enjoys his "hobby" when he gets a chance. Would never dream of being with a male partner. Generally closeted.
2. Gay Crossdresser - Likes to dress (continuously or not) and preffers males. May or may not have ex-wives, kids, etc. May or may not be closeted.
3. Hetero Transsexual - Wants to transition to the opposite gender, and live a hetero lifestyle as the new gender. Out in a big way.
4. Gay Transsexual - Wants to transition to the opposite gender, and live a gay lifestyle as the new gender. Also out in a big way.
So I figure that makes up about 20% of our population. The rest of us, I would consider:
TRANSGENDERED: Terminally confused, don't know who/what/where we are most of the time...can't tell if we're coming or going....and enjoying it a great deal. Well, most of the time, anyway. Also, we can generally fall into at least three of the above categories depending on which day of the week it is.