I've seen the stand up, I know that Violet is funny and has great comedic timing and maybe someday she will be be on TV (at least on LOGO). The circle is small and there are people in that circle who know people in your other circle so someday it will come out. How about being PRO-active. You want to be on the circuit and anything that potentially can block you will derail that chance. You know show business is about luck and timing so don't do anything that will interfere with that. Friend her. Either she knows and wants to be your friend OR she doesn't but thinks you are funny.
Being proactive gives you control. Waiting to see what happens makes you a passenger on a Toyota with no breaks and a sticky accelerator