I wonder how many of us that are crossdressers happen to also consider themselves submissive to GG's..or want to be submissive to a GG. I see this as a common thread from those that identify as being submissive.
I could just as easily ask this same question at another site, similar to this site but for those mainly interested in Dominant/submissive relationships. Over there it seems to be fairly prevalent. I have also seen this connection at various other sites. And no, I am not talking about porn sites. I mean other sites that deal with alternate lifestyles such as we share here.
For me, I developed my interest and desire to become a submissive to a dominant woman later in life. To explain how or why is another story.
That was maybe 10 years ago. Prior to then, I never in my life gave any thought about anything related to BDSM, the umbrella term that dominance/submission falls under. And I hate that it does since most BDSM is not my cup of tea or is way to far out for me to consider.
I think my interest is born out of my deep respect, admiration and love of women due to my personal path as a crossdresser since age 10 or so.
Like many late blooming CD's, it was a learning experience. From just wanting it to be a part time kink or bedroom play, to my now living in a 24/7 relationship with a woman that is truly a dominant person. Kind of like she wears the pants in the family.
Look around. Ever notice how many CD's like to dress in maids uniforms?
It kind of goes with the territory of service to a dominant woman. I'm sure not in all cases.
It's not a case of all CD's being submissive, or all submissive men being a CD. But I feel that many CD's are interested in being submissive to a GG. In some cases, maybe even to a man. Everything from just fantasy play to 24/7 relationships.
For our GG's.... Does the idea of your CD being submissive to you have any appeal? Like having him/her clean house, do the laundry, give massages, pedicures, manicures and simply and lovingly obey your every wish.
I would think this interest is less prevalent among our transitioning members, but perhaps rather an interest or fantasy of our CD's.