Inquiring minds want to know-Week 13

[JiveTurkeyOnRye]

34) Not saying it is wrong I am just wanting to understand. Why the seeming obsession with panties? All the threads about them? I just do not get it.

I never really post in those threads, but I am pretty hooked on panties. I'm approaching the point where they'll be the only underwear I wear. The reason for the threads though I think is because they're the easiest thing to wear of women's clothing and not get read at all. Unless you've got lace or an incriminating brand name sticking out of your waistband, you can wear panties as a guy to your hearts galore and have people be none the wiser.

Another thing to consider is that you GGs talk about your underwear amongst yourselves a lot too, or at least most of the ones I've ever met do. Girls go shopping together at Victoria's Secret, and then carry their pink striped bags around the mall displaying what they just bought. They have lingerie parties, meaning purchasing parties in the vein of tupperware parties, not talking about male fantasies of sorority bedrooms of course. And if you look at the marketing for name brands of panties, like VS's PINK line or Frederick's Naughty Knickers, or AE's Aerie lines, they blatantly make a point of selling how fun and flirty and cute panties are, trying to sell the idea that wearing them makes you feel that much cuter or sexier. Now for those of us who are pretty out with it, we can talk to our friends about it the same way GGs can, but to the many on here who aren't open to anyone, the panty threads are the closest thing they can get to the "Oh my god, I got the cutest underwear the other day..." conversations. Most of them probably don't realize how excessive the threads can get because they're not really thinking of each previous thread when they answer a new one, they're just going "oh, fun!"


35) Having to do with your CD lifestyle are you for the most part happy? If not what would make you happier?
I'm pretty happy with it, especially since coming out. The only thing that would make me happier is just more acceptance of it from the general public.


36) Do you have bouts of depression or sadness because of CDing? Why do you think you do? What helps you? Is there anything we can do?
Not like I did before I came out. The only thing that occasionally bums me out now is worrying how it will affect me with finding an SO in the future. I dated a girl in Columbus shortly after coming out and she was pretty cool with it, it wasn't something she was "into" per se but it also didn't bother her at all so she was willing to go out with me while I wore skirts and also didn't mind that I wore women's underwear. I broke things off because I moved to LA but I worry sometimes that she may have been the needle in the haystack and that most girls won't give it a chance.