I have read a lot of posts that talk about our style of clothing. How some of us like business suits or professional outfits. While others take a more laid back approach to our style.
Recently, it has been hitting me that I am free to decorate my house the way I want. All of these years I have let my wife decorate and with the divorce it is my turn. So here is the question: Do you find your feminine side changing how you do other things in life - not related to clothing choices?
I guess I will start it off by stating that I am preparing to buy a new bed frame and I picked a very nice and ornanate wrought iron bed frame. When I showed a friend of mine, she was a little surprised that a guy would be interested in that bed frame. It was definitely something my wife would have picked out, but this was me (a guy). I hate to show my friend the bed spread that I am also considering buying. That would be a dead giveaway that something is different about me. Now I have to wonder what a woman would think seeing a more feminine bed spread and frame in a bachelor's pad. The other question that I have is - would having a feminine bed spread and frame cause a woman to be suspicious immediately that I was a cd'er.