No I Like my self to much like I am to change. Besides I don't want to have to get to know my self again
No I Like my self to much like I am to change. Besides I don't want to have to get to know my self again
Me too I must be a real woman in my soul and in my heartOriginally Posted by Kelly DeWinter
[SIZE="6"][/SIZE]Alicia N Neal
I think being a regular, normal average male would be so damn boring. Maybe even being an average GG would also be boring. I am anything but typical a male. I like my SO's domination over me, I like some aspects of BDSM and of course I like to cross dress. Why would I want to loose any of the things that sets me apart from the majority of others and make life boring to me? No and hell no, I would not take that pill.
Yes I would. Why? Because the result of transition for me would not have a passable result so it would be easier to bring myself to the male side 100 percent. Unfortunately the pill is as much a fantasy for me as becoming a passable woman so there is no acceptable direction for me to go. If we are talking about magic and we have a choice though, I think we all know which direction we would go don't we?
Last edited by Star; 12-12-2010 at 11:03 AM.
Very sad, Jojo. You have my condolences. I think that being in a similar situation would kill my desire to dress for the duration as well.
My wife deserves to have her husband, the man she married, 100% male also. But I was transgendered when we married (always have been), and I hid it from her. I still keep my femme activities to myself, and reserve my time with my wife to strictly a male gender role.
I think often about the origina question here. Not necessarily with pills or anything, but if I could exchange who I am for a me that was not transgendered with this insatiable desire to wear dresses and high heels....no, scratch that....desire to be female, I'd probably do it in a heartbeat. The longing to encounter the world on a daily basis as a female is at times overwhelming. I have this constant envy of women for who they get to be in this life, a life that I will never have. And I'd rather I got to enjoy the one I have without those feeling gnawing at me every day.
On the other hand, I couldn't imagine a life where I didn't get to experience and enjoy "being" female from time to time and wearing pretty clothes, makeup, high heels, etc. So I'm always torn about whether or not I'd actually rather NOT be this way.
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Jojo, I too offer my sincere condolences to your wife's health issues. Having lost a wife to cancer after a 6 month battle in 1984. I know how hard it is. I loved my wife dearly and clearly remember the daily struggle we faced. Looking back, i never gave up hope and even blinded myself to the reality of her passing even when the doctors and nurses were trying to tell me there was little or no hope. I know that I thought of nothing but her for that time she suffered with trying to cure that cancer. My waking hours were either in the hospital with her, or I was at work. Little else do I remember about that 6 month period.One year ago last week my wife was diagnosed with stage three cancer.
Appx. three months later one of the doctors, that saw her in the beginning, saw her again and expressed surprise that she was still alive. We left that negative MD.
This morning, my darling wife went to see her doctor again, and was informed that she was stage four and may only have two months left.
I wish you well in dealing with this horrible disease. My heart goes out to you and your beautiful wife.
Hell Yes I would ..Give me the damn pill!! I'd do it with out even thinking about it ..So give it to me where can I get ? How can I get it? There is no such thing yet and that's a crying shame !! That question has been asked here so many times and my answer is always the same..!!
I do not!! Claim to be an expert on any topic, when I post a new thread or reply on any thread my imput is strickly that of a crossdresser. Not to offend Gay people , Transexuals or any other life style, I am only commenting on one of my own.
The pill, a magic wand, (insert another metaphor here)..to stop..the premise being that cd'ng or being tg has caused harm or pain to ones' self or loved ones and friends, or has prevented the cd from maximizing some kind of achievement, professionally, financially, or personally. I would accept the "pill" or some other process, only if I could be assured of the following:
1) I would always be pleased with the body I was originated in, in fact, I would love, not hate hairy legs, chest, etc.
2) I would always enjoy intimacy with women as a man...and never wish I was one.
3) I would like to have, in addition, a special power, I could use whenever I wish, to make people feel really great about who they are...just the way they are.
That is all.
that's beautiful
[SIZE="2"]"I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not"[/SIZE]
Stop? - Good God NO!!!!
It is the most fulfilling part of my life
An oldie but a goody that gets posted every now and then.. I think sometimes I'd like to stop being this way for a while.. I go to bed most nights with cross dressing on my mind rarely dreaming about it though.. There is a certain amount of wishing to not be this way that.. Actually no, I don't think I would want to take that pill.. No thrill in that there pill, it is the thrill of dressing that makes me live I think.. Some look forward to Christmas I look forward to the shopping season because it means I can look through the womens clothing with a certain amount of confidence knowing that I could be looking for something for my girlfriend..
Its other people with the issues. The need to repress and conceal it is to protect them from their lack of imagination. Period.
Absolutely. I'd take it in a second.
Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.
