I have been living with my wife(I call her my wife but we have never been married)for 10 years now and she has known about Jamie for years before that, and I never thought that was a problem she is a big beautiful woman and has never shown any sign of liking cute outfits or anything overly girly, but, the other day we were both sitting in the computer room and I was looking at this site and this post came up, I mentioned the title to her and made a joke about her being jealous about how I look (because she always tells me my clothing choices at not to her taste) but I could read her expression like a book, she is, she couldn't even come up with a response just silence. I often dress very skimpy for her(and for me too)and she never seems impressed, never even thought she might be jelous...I think I will try to be a bit more sensitive when I fish for complements. I wish I could get her to get a bit more healthy, myself and friends have tryed to get her out for walks when the weather is nice for some exercise or to ask a doctor why she is so big(she only eats about half what I do but I am half her size) but she wont do anything. But anyway I never thought it was a problem but this post proved that it is.