I have a very supportive and loving wife who actually encouraged my personal growth and opened a door leading to my CDing. She opened up a dialogue about why I liked to buy her clothes, jewlery and shoes several years back. She asked me to be totally honest - would I like to have my own pair of high heels She then bought me a pair and, in time, helped me discover Nancy.
Her long time best friend has recently been staying with us for periods of time after she discovered her husband was having an affair. She is well down the divorce path and has started to date. My wife asked me today to introduce Nancy to her friend while she is visiting. She wants me to "be myself" and believes her frend will be very accepting. She even thought we could go out together.
Although this sounds great, I am not sure if I should come out to her. I am concerned that she may be still be fragile and that this discovery may affect her trust of men further following her husband's cheating. She is mature, intelligent and open-minded. But could this new discovery be negative for her?
Also, what if she is not as accepting as my wife thinks.? What if she raises relationship concerns to my wife?
Also, if I do introduce Nancy, how should I do it? One step at a time, or should she meet Nancy in make-up, nails, bra, breastforms, dress, nylons and heels?
There is a good possibility that her friend may have to move in with us for an extended period of time in the months ahead after her divorce settlement. I want to ensure that this is comfortable for all of us. So does my wife, and she thinks meeting Nancy as soon as possible would be best.
I think this would be OK. I think it would be fun. I am also worried that it might be too much, too fast. Anyone have any thoughts?