Apparently according to my wife - Crossdressing == Herpes (or other STD) in terms of severity...
A little background: wife and I were having a discussion about one of her friends who married a man who had genital herpes (and didn't tell her about it until they were already married) and I kind of jokingly said "aren't you happy I told you about myself at the beginning?" she basically said " it's about the same thing..."
me - "even though I told you at the beginning?"
her- "yes"
me:
Aah well... just another viewpoint some of us may have to live with