The other day I was thinking about this. Take a step back and look at your life. How does it fit in? Is it just a little hobby you don't even think about most of the time? Is it one of the defining parts of your life, with all your decisions being made in the context of crossdressing? I'm interested to know how much importance it has with all of us.
For me, I'd say that while it's a lot more than a hobby for me, I've been making an effort to keep it from consuming my life, as I don't want it to define me.