Well I went to college at Texas Tech university, a school of about 30,000 students. Demographically, it lies in a pretty conservative area, full of churches, farmers, and not very many open minds.
In all my years at that school, I never met a single person that I knew was gay, bi, or TG. (what are the odds? I knew they had to be out there) but I guess it's because I hung around in straight circles.
One day, however, I was trolling around in the library when a guy (clearly male) walked by wearing a long dress, clearly trying to let his pretty side out.
I was stunned. I thought "here? in public?" and wanted to talk to him soooo bad. But didn't. I guess I just wanted to know how he overcame the social obstacles and grew enough courage to just do it. I wanted to talk about clothes too...
Saw him another time on campus but couldn't make time to say hello because I was late for class.
Wish I had gotten to know him. Ah, well...