I think it is a fair question Jess .Over the past 5 years i have come more to acceppt myself which means i have come farther out of the closet .As i posted awhile back i did venture out one night (but have not since) .
Saying this im kinda in the same position as Marleena. Im sure i live in the same region and my city is pretty much the same so i am careful what i do and say

If i do shop it is usually way out of town in a bigger center as there are absoloutly no cd or tg friendly places in my redneck area of the woods anyhoo jusy my story lol