I read a wonderful post in another thread by our amazing Shannon and it made me wonder! She talked about how she needed romance and affection to want to have sex with someone. While I'm clueless to having a fem side, what she said rang tru for me.
I've always needed an emotional bond before I could be truly turned on to a woman after that first time. I remember my bar days. Sometimes I'd meet some young hottie I'd been admiring and she'd say 3 words and I'd want out!
In fact, most of my partners have been the aggressors in bed! So, maybe I DO have a fem side? In bed, anyway!
It made me wonder how many others here r fem in bed? All the women I can remember being with were girlie girls. But, that didn't stop them from taking over if I was going too slow!
Do u need "romance" to connect with someone? Who's been the aggressor in the bedroom in your experience? U or your dates/SO?
Leave out all sordid details, please! Just the facts, mam, just the facts!