All of my extended family knew that I dressed, except for my 17 year old grand daughter, who lives out of state and is visiting. But, Sunday we went out on my boat to scatter my son's ashes and in recovering the boat and putting in on my trailer I have to removed my shoes to climb out and hook it up. She saw my toes (painted a light pink) and immediately asked about them. I told her the truth and she was cool about it. Today I'm taking her in for a mani and pedi, as it is time for mine. She is excited about it and I'll go back to red. She wants to use my color also. Now everyone knows in the family. Good.