Time is what she is getting.
Time is what she is getting.
Last edited by Lyndaloves; 10-28-2012 at 10:44 AM.
Proceed with caution! Do not over do anything. She is in a delicate state, one that my current SO is in, so just let it go. She may want to see Lynda tomorrow, she may want to see Lynda in 2019. The main thing is do not push her at all. You will lose any progress by doing that. Stay reserved and things will pan out for the better. I've been waiting in this situation for about 2 years with my SO and things are looking no better than the day she found out, yet she has no problems with it and will borrow clothes. She just isn't ready to see her man as a woman. Completely understandable. So, for now, we have matching panties and shop for undies together, but that is it. She will occasionally ask my opinion on a dress or skirt and I will give my honest opinion, but I have not pushed it on her and she is as accepting as ever. She told me if I did push it on her, she is as good as gone. So, I am stuck at a dilema.
“You can love someone so much… But you can never love someone as much as you miss them.”
-John Green, An Abundance of Katherines
all i can think to say is take it slow......slow.......and even slower
I'm confused,
Are you still dating?
Are you still seeing each other?
Are you still having sex?
I can't make sense of your post on any of those points.
"Normal is what you get when you average out the weirdness that everybody has." Quote from my SO
Normal is a setting on a washing machine, or another word for average.
The fact that I wear a skirt as a male should not be taken as a comment on what you do, or do not wear, or how you wear it.
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