HI Kate, I try to look as convincing as possible because I am not fond of my male appearance and I guess I seek some form of validation that I indeed do look attractive,even as a woman.This is not just an ego thing but it is emotional for me also as well as almost spiritual.It makes me automatically feel gentle,more caring,much more patient and basically non- masculine.My mannerisms and thought processes automatically become lady-like with little or no effort. It feels natural for me to dress and look like a woman and always has.
I hope that helps answer things a little?
Oh and unlike some on here( no names mentioned but very close by) I see no need for being arrogant or overtly conceited about my looks,as I talk to any CD/TG I like regardless of how great or not they look.It's all a learning process anyway.
Hugs Vicki xoxo
