Hiya D,
Well, addressing your exact question at face value...
If you view a relationship as a “game”…(Not recommended)
Here is how you “could” do it:
-go to the Political Science Dept at your college.
-take course on propaganda/persuasion.
-learn how to present subjective (biased/opinions)…i.e. “harmless” definitions in the form of objective (factually supported/unbiased) statements.
-use the technique to ”convince” your girlfriend (crossdressing = “harmless”).
OR
You “could” consider this (my) "alternative" perception of the relationship process:
Relationships are based upon a committed mutual goal of understanding and supporting your prospective/existing partner’s perceptions and beliefs. It is not a competition revolving around partners trying to “convince” each other about who (or “what”) is right or wrong in life.
Life is subjective and all about perceptions. Sometimes a relationship “works”. Sometimes it does not. *(so far in my case it has "not"...)
Hey, the only way that I have found happiness is to be myself and respect others right to do the same...
Everything here is of course...just my opinion and options...stable or unstable, lol...
Good Luck,
HaveFun/BeHappy
