Hi Karli. I can't give you any advice on Vegas - but a number of members have been there, so perhaps they'll soon respond. I can tell you that my first steps out were not all that big. I tried the usual things, underdressing, then wearing a bra and forms under a jacket, then added a little makeup and wore heels with a mix of male and female. But I didn't really feel that it was doing it for me.

Then one day, I had my lawn sprinkler going in my front yard. I was fully dressed and made up, but without a wig. For some reason, I couldn't bring myself to change back to drab just to move a sprinkler. So, I summonned up my resolve and stepped out the front door. As it happened, no one seems to have seen me, but just breaking that barrier was a huge step for me. The next day, I came out to my hair dresser, bought a new wig and had my en femme meal at a restaurant. I think its often like that - once you've broken the barrier, you no longer feel confined.