Ijust told my wife about my cross dressing and was surprised at her reaction she was cool with it and even bought my first lacey thong hence the name Andrea lace.I have kept my cross dressing a secret all my life and it was a huge relief to tell my wife i was sure she had an idea as i used pretty much all of her red lipstick and gloss.at first my wife thought it was just fetish and something for the bedroom but i would really like to do it in more than just the bedroom.yesterday i was looking for a good website so i could chat and get advice.The web site i went on had pictures of male genitalia and a very intimate picture of two gay men.My wife then saw the website and the gay remark came up well we didnt talk that much as i felt she betrayed me by insinuating that i was gay.the next morning i realized that my cross dressing was a big deal for her to get her head around as well as it was for me.I am feeling a little insecure at the moment and coming out to my wife was a huge thing for me and i am glad to have found this site that offers advice from people like myself.My male persona hates things like shopping but the idea of shopping with my wife for Andrea would be great just knowing i can go home and try on the clothes would be brilliant.I was thinking of shaving my legs but dont know how long it takes for them to grow back?.i am planning for my wife to meet Andrea on Monday so i am looking forward to that.I also want to buy a wig i think Andrea would be a brunette plus my wife said she doesnt want her new friend to be blond