Quote Originally Posted by Nanaya View Post
Something I've noticed on this forum is that everyone has a tendency to refer to others as girls. And while I can definitely understand why... It's something that makes me uncomfortable. While most people here think of themselves as women, it's not the case for everyone. I'm a boy, and though I am a crossdresser, I still want to be referred to as a boy.

I think calling everyone "ladies" is generalizing a bit, in a way. And it's something that should be fixed, for the sake of crossdressers like me who don't feel like women and don't want to be referred to as such.
I for one am pleased you have said how you feel ... as GG I like to try learn all about different views from different people and I am grateful that you have explained how you feel; it is, I guess, because it gets pretty scary reading some of the posts on here when my SO has revealed he is a cder .... I am trying to work out if there will be a time when he wants to 'progress' or if it is likely he will remain like you ... a guy who likes to wear womens clothing but does not want to become a woman. I love him and want him to be happy, but I need to be happy too, and I would not be happy if he chose to become too girlie or, God forbid, if he wanted to become a woman full time. Thanks again Nanaya