I mostly stay here because I have many friends here and gain more all the time. If I can help with understanding along the way, all the better. Those of you who know me know I have had many name changes on this board over the last 7 years but the reason for that is that I evolve as a person and the names seem to evolve along with me. I have balanced my male and female feelings and energies, so for one thing I have pretty thick skin but I realize many others do not but self understanding is the real key to knowledge.I have self doubts just like anyone else sometimes, that's just human nature. I realize one cannot please everyone by the things they say and I honestly do not want to hurt anyone either but do pose questions to make us all think, that is my purpose here. to help my friends.