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Read: "My Husband Betty: Love, Life, and Sex with a Crossdresser" by Helen Boyd
It is written by a very open-minded "GG" woman who is married to a Crossdresser and does an excellent job explaining some issues that many SO's might have with their Crossdressing husbands. Most women don't "have a problem" with CD'ers, though they might have a problem with how their husband or SO tells them, or how their husband or SO acts, or something like that. If women have a problem, its usually with the lying or sneakiness or obsessive behavior that some crossdressers exhibit, i.e. it's all he wants to do.
Crossdressing is rarely the sole issue in any relationship, if it is an issue at all.
Read it, its like $5 online or go check it out in the library.