The past few weeks I've been going to lane bryant in the evenings when they aren't very busy. I'll just go in and look around. Someone will come ask me if I need help and I'll talk to them a bit. It usually comes up to what size am I looking for and what colors does who I'm buying them for like. I then say oh this is for me. So far no one has been phased at all by this. I've been looking online at dress barn and I see some things on there I like. Has anyone had any experience with them? I tried Cato and they pretty much told me to go away. I think next time I go to lane byant I might take in a bra and my home made forms with me and try some things on. too bad they don't have much that I like right now. Can puffy sleeves make another comeback please?