When you are romancing your partner, who are you? Are you dressed as, and feel like, the feminine you? If you are not dressed, do you think about being dressed and wish you were dressed? Do you think about CDing images? Is CDing sexually exciting? Does CDing enhance your experience? If you are dressed when making love, what do you wear? Have you tried seeing yourself in a mirror? Do heels, nylons and/or make up enhance your pleasure? Are you attracted differently when dressed? Has CDing diminished your lovemaking or enhanced it?
Sorry for all the questions. I prefer to be Heather, enjoy being Heather, think about being Heather, love to have on my sexiest heels, nylons, lingerie and fingernails. Heather is much better kissing and lovemaking.