The thing is, there are so many ways to go from here but it depends what YOU want! The options range from prosecuting her for theft all the way through to agreeing with her and purging everything else...... But my big question is why? Why did she steal (yes, she did steal them) your things? Why did she bin them? Why do you agree and even help her in her crime (hint). Were you acting illegally? Were you harrassing anyone or causing issues for anyone? Why does she feel this is acceptable behaviour? The value of your items is very jail-worthy......