I think most of us ladies here share similar feels of being comfortable when dressed and it may be difficult for your friend to understand that. I say dress the way that makes you happy and love who you love (just be true to them) and you will live a happier life. Your friend may be trying to "help" you from what she thinks is correct or good fro her point of view but I find it difficult to take advice from people who do not understand our circumstances... much like someone trying to give me advice on how to raise children when then never had children. Just peruse your dreams/happiness gurl and dont let other people stop you from getting there. You can listen to her advice but you don't have to take it. You are your own person and it is your life to live not hers.
