One of my friends divorced last year after a long marriage. Although cross dressing wasn't the whole reason it surely was one of them. In the last year she has blossomed and began growing.
She met an accepting women and is happy. But now she has the opposite problem she had with her wife.
Her girlfriend seems to have taken on the role of over zealous coach and mentor. To her girlfriends credit she looks great, lost a lot of weight, stopped smoking and drinking. Has a grown her hair, and developed a classic sense of fashion. My friend was a a closet cross dresser a year ago and now with the exception of work my friend is now basically living as a women. She is happy but also is concern that maybe has been caught up in this too quickly. Nowadays instead of criticism about cross dressing, she gets admonished for dressing male! She's a level headed girl and is in therapy
I am happy for her and I am sure she will find her way
Has anyone every gone thru a similar situation where your wife or girlfriend was super helpful?