i was wanting advice on the best way to tell them. he and i have been talking about it and my family is very close. my grandmother can drop by at any time to see us since we are moving back to Texas. we will be getting a house there and have family from my side staying with us. deebra i do not like the fact that you assume that i am trying to do this without my husband knowing. he has posted a comment on here so he knows what i am doing. i am not going to do anything without him say its ok or not ok. i was looking for advice