Advice

[cdmorganashley]

i am just voicing my personal opinion on this, but i think being with anyone other than your gf is asking for trouble... even if she is there and even if she were to participate this is going to introduce a totally new dynamic to the relationship and has the potential to cause feelings of jealousy and insecurity... if you are satisfied by your girlfriend, i wouldn't change things... i know it is possible that she could turn out to be fine with you being with someone else, but i don't like the odds on that, and having a supportive gf is a really special relationship that i wouldn't risk losing not matter what she says is okay with her in theory... if you feel that you cannot be happy unless you are also with another cd i guess its something to talk to her more about, but i think her initial reaction of getting mad should be a clear signal to you, and when she says she would want to be there, it doesn't sound like she wants to be there because she is turned on by it, but rather because she wants to know exactly whats going on because she is worried you might like the cd better, etc.--maybe i am way off base, but i really don't think so... if there are things that you want to explore in the bedroom i would try and find a way to satisfy them with your gf--strap-on/roleplay, etc. (hope that's not too graphic)... anyway something i've seen before on here, and experienced in my relationships is a gf saying to do what you want and meaning "are you actually considering doing that when its so obvious it is not what i want you to do?" if you don't need to do this, my advice is don't do it--good luck

*as for going to the party with your gf... if its just to go out and have a good time it sounds like fun, probably for both of you, but when you say admirers will be there i am suspicious of what type of party this is going to be... if it is just people getting together to hook up it might not be the best place to go with your gf for a fun night out, especially if she is not aware of the type of party this is ahead of time... i would make sure this is going to be a regular party or find a party that is, especially if going out with her dressed is something new to you guys... walk before you run type of thing i think...