What would you change?
For me, it would probably be breaking in my other side to my SO much more slowly. I felt like I had pushed too much and forced her into liking my CDing side, whereas I should've given her more time and remained patent. Hopefully then, she might find it in herself to enjoy and not always seem so forced (As she feels now).
I know it isn't healthy to dwell on the past, but perhaps there is a lot to be learned from what could've/should've/would've.