I think, regardless of how I'm dressed, I'm basically the same person. My wife frequently refers to me as her RobbieRita. I'm sort of a blend of male and female most of the time. My nails are almost always painted. When I'm not presenting as Rita I sit and walk as a dude but with some seriously feminine qualities. I assume most people I encounter think I'm gay. It perplexes me that I don't care if people think I'm gay, but would be traumatized if they knew I was a cross dresser. /shrug
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