For most of my confusing life, it SEEMED to be about the clothes. But, at forty something it is way more than that. The more I learn where I am on the gender scale, I'm understanding "it is what it is". Less about what I wear, more about who I am. Like almost any GG will tell you, my other half included, flats over heels. Good bra over a sexy one. Less makeup over more..... Nothing wrong with it being about the clothes. That's why we all are who we are. Because we are different. Don't get me wrong. I still like to get dressed up and click my heels sometimes.
I think I am at a crossroad these days. Being true to myself and realizing that I've been hiding who I really am. The clothes are only a reflection of inner self for me.
