Same old same old. A male in a dress plays it for laughs, from Milton Berle all the way up. It is the reality of society. You perceive it to offend you because it is what you are. Your offense is in what you think about them doing it as opposed to them actually doing it. You are making it worse in your own mind than what it really is. I do the same thing all the time but am working to change the way I see the world.