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    Wearing The Clothes

    Do CD's enjoy wearing and the feel of female clothing more than GG's? I say yes, to CD's the feeling is sexy, feminine and it make's you so happy. For some it changes you from a blah male to the feeling of what it's like to being an attractive, sexy, feminine woman. It honestly can be compared to the build up of an orgasm. From putting the first piece of clothing on (panties) to your last piece is a continual build up of pleasure. Women on the other hand wear the clothing to look nice, having worn them since birth they are just clothes to women and bra's are a pain. And the irony is society says men can't wear female clothing. Does getting dressed and the wearing of female clothing turn you on as much as it does me? It totally transforms my mind/mood from O.K. to WOW.

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    Hi Deebra, I'm sure that women must feel sexy when they dress to impress.
    I know that I really feel wonderful when I see that pretty lady looking at me in the mirror.
    Having my ears triple pierced is AWESOME, ~~......

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    I think I roll elements from all of your responses into how I feel.

    Right now, I am in drab. I feel disconnected from my clothing.
    Not to the point where I will do something about it, but I do not
    feel that my self matches what I am wearing.

    Now, when I go out, and when I put on a dress, perhaps a
    blouse and skirt, the bra, the wig, and the perfume, I feel very
    sexy, confident, and empowered. These feelings have allowed
    me to resist the pressure not to CD because of what others might
    think. The way I figure it, I don't care if they have an issue with it.

    As Blue Orchid said, women certainly feel sexy when they dress
    up for it. The way I buy my clothes allows me to at least make the
    attempt to look good every time I CD. I don't just buy the 3 or 4 pack
    of T Shirts from Fruit of the Loom. I've gotten into buying T Shirts from
    White Stag or George, which are more around $5 for one, so a higher
    quality. I buy skirts and full-length dresses that I KNOW will look good
    on me, and I have gotten compliments on my outfits, which then leads
    to more satisfaction with my looks, more confidence, and more empowerment.


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    Its like a release valve on your psyche. The beauty is it can be whatver you want it be. Sexy, empowering, "normal", permissive... the list goes on. And what it does for us can change daily.

    But to answer your question directly. I am a little giddy while getting dressed but enjoy the end result more. When im done dressing my mental attitude is " ok gurl, now get out there and be the best woman you can". I often fail but enjoy trying

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    I am a GG. I am not exactly a "typical" girl. I think I tend to fetishize overtly feminine things like high heels, lingerie, & makeup. I enjoy these things on other people, male or female. I also enjoy them on myself.

    My job is running a home & family, which means children, school, housework, errands, & all these unsexy, necessary tasks. I often go days without makeup, often wear things like leggings & baggy shirts, jeans & tank tops, & rarely do my hair. That is my work attire.

    When I have the time & reason to dress up, I can sometimes spend 2 hours on my hair, makeup, & primping. It feels good to take that time to bring out my femininity. I finally get to look in the mirror & think "I'm BEAUTIFUL!" I instantly feel confident, sexy, & so much more like myself. I hear a lot of CDers describe this transformation similarly.

    As well, even if a particular item of dress or lingerie happens to be uncomfortable, if it is pretty, form-flattering, slinky, sultry, or anything that reads, to me, as ultra-feminine, I *feel* good in it (at least until the end of a night & I just want that underwire to stop poking my armpit).

    I love the feel & look of all things feminine, on me or my husband. I love cosmetics. I love the smell of makeup. I have shoes that have never seen the world outside my bedroom, but I have them because wearing them for my husband makes me feel sexier.

    Like I said, I'm not really a typical woman, but I bet other GGs feel somewhat like this in regards to their options of attire.

    We all have "drab" and "dress" modes, however we choose to define them. It's all about what makes you feel good about yourself.

    As RuPaul once said, "You're born naked, & the rest is drag!"
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    If women were as blasé about their clothes as your post hints at, there would be no Victoria's Secret or other sexy lingerie on the market, high heels would be practically nonexistent and most of the clothes you'd see would look more like what the Amish wear.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DonnaT View Post
    If women were as blasé about their clothes as your post hints at, there would be no Victoria's Secret or other sexy lingerie on the market, high heels would be practically nonexistent and most of the clothes you'd see would look more like what the Amish wear.
    What she said.

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    Dressing has always been "exciting" - it still is but now it makes me feel more complete ...............................Debra

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    MOST CDers will use certain female clothing items as TOOLS to help get them to O land. [eventually] Obviously we are not talking granny dresses and flats here...

    Are we? I DID take the liberty of starting a thread in the P&V gallery on granny dresses and flats.

    With the expectant results.

    Females also use certain female clothing items as TOOLS [but NOT to help them get to O land] but to "attract" more men. [which gives them a much greater choice in mates] Their CHOICES in how they present themselves allows them more power. Men don't gain power from their presentation but they DO get to choose what to wear and in Florida we can shop in any department in any store. What a great state!

    Not surprisingly, it's the same types of clothing articles that many CDs prefer, along with centerfolds, hookers and porn stars.

    It's neither complicated nor mysterious. It's just Evolution at work. It's not changing anytime soon and no one can control it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by deebra View Post
    ... I say yes, to CD's the feeling is sexy, feminine and it make's you so happy. For some it changes you from a blah male to the feeling of what it's like to being an attractive, sexy, feminine woman. ... It totally transforms my mind/mood from O.K. to WOW.
    Yes deebra - this specifically of what you have said strikes a chord with me - as several others have added similar comments - and it goes beyond (or ahead of!) wearing the clothes, as makeup comes first! (just like GGs...) It is a transformation process and that itself goes a long way to providing me with a great deal of harmony...

    I can't say I end up looking like a porn star or a hooker... nor actually that there's anything wrong with that if that's what you want in the privacy of your own home... or even at a convention, if it's right for that...

    Does it mean more to us than GGs? Probably - in the same way driving a an exotic sports car for a day may mean more to an individual who will never afford to own one, than it means to an owner who collects them by the dozen. We emulate what we adore but can't really be... it means so much to us, and perhaps is only approached by the feeling a GG may have in getting dressed to the nines for a special occasion...

    Interesting perspectives again....

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    Rinse and curl your hair - Loosen your hips, and get a dress to wear"
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    Robyne says that she feels confident, sexy, and more like herself after getting all dressed up. I feel much like that whether I'm dressing in my tux or in my new red dress. We spend the time to make ourselves look as good as possible, how is that not going to feel good?

    Last August the last of my five daughters got married and I got all done up in my tux and after looking at the pictures I thought that I look pretty darn good for a 73 year old dude. I like tht feeling. Two days ago I got all done up in my new red dress and went out for the evening looking pretty good for an early 60s lady, I like that feeling too!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by deebra View Post
    having worn them since birth they are just clothes to women and bra's are a pain. .
    Bra's are a pain to me too LOL....but I hear you...I love my girly clothes....I also feel it goes way beyond what is draped over your body, its internal.

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    Girl's clothes, all of them, are much more fun to wear. Guy's stuff is just so boring.

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    I must be a CD because i love wearing the cloths from panties to bras to make up wig and forms, i just wish i could dress 24/7. Yes it totally transform my mind and personality. I am a differnt person dressed.

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    Having been a crossdresser for over 60 years I don't really know why I do it. My late wife liked me to wear feminine clothing, and I did it most of the time once our children were grown up and out of the house. Now I wear male clothing only when I am going to be around family. As I write this I am dressed fully feminine and have been since I got up this morning. It is now 1:53 P.M. Eastern Daylight time! I am much more comfortable in feminine clothing, and I do normally wear panties and a bra all day every day, even when around family! BTW, I do fill a 40 B bra without any forms!
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    i enjoy wearing women's clothes far more than my male clothes, in fact i dont need a gg to please me lol my soft silky undies do more than satisfiey me than any gg could!
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    I think you are asking the about exact things that us Crossdressers all shared on the first steps of our climb to where we are now. It is not as earth-shaking now but is still just as real and euphoric, but honestly age does have a dampening effect on the urgency. From what I have read here and other places seem to show that transgendered people don't have the same tactile or fetish stimuli for the duration of time through out life as it remains with others. But I learned long ago to enjoy it and make the most of it. Now that I am older and less adapt to the art I wish I had indulged more and made more memories and pictures.
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    I must agree that wearing femme clothes is what being a crossdresser is all about. The clothing is the magic passage to a sense of being a real wo0man.

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    Quote Originally Posted by deebra View Post
    Do CD's enjoy wearing and the feel of female clothing more than GG's? I say yes, to CD's the feeling is sexy, feminine and it make's you so happy.
    Uh, no. When dressed as a girl, I just feel normal, it's when dressed as a guy that I feel out of place.
    Does getting dressed and the wearing of female clothing turn you on as much as it does me?
    That seems to be the definitive difference; the underlying reason why we crossdress. For some, it's a sexual thing, for others, it's not. And for those for whom it's sexual in nature, it usually seems impossible to understand why anyone else would NOT feel the same way.
    Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
    There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
    Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.

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    Hi Deebra,

    While I can't say I dress up to look (or see myself) as an attractive and sexy woman (one look deflates that small potential fantasy ) nor can I say it gives me sexual pleasure. I can say that dressing in women's clothing feels as natural as putting on guy stuff for me. However the process of transformation to me is intoxicating . . . I hold no illusions I look even remotely feminine when I go out but the process is one I enjoy (albeit tongue in cheek when I have a critical make-up fail ).

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    Do CD's enjoy wearing and the feel of female clothing more than GG's?

    While I'm not sure that any of us are qualified to make that assertion, I feel that because most GG have been doing it day in and day out, for all their life, and to some degree, expected to do it, they probably take a lot of it for granted. Dressing make me feel very different. While my wife has asked me to describe the feeling, all I can say is 'it make me feel feminine and I like it'.

    There an old saying, something to the affect of: 'some people want what they don't have and people that have it don't think about it'....

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    Quote Originally Posted by deebra View Post
    Does getting dressed and the wearing of female clothing turn you on as much as it does me? It totally transforms my mind/mood from O.K. to WOW.
    It did at first. Just putting on a pair of panties was incredibly arousing.

    That lasted for about a month and started to fade. But the sense of seduction stayed, it's just not sexual now. I shave my body and wear perfume and put on women's clothes because I want to, because I feel good doing it.

    Because it speaks to me sweetly in a language I understand now.
    Last edited by WhisperTV; 06-07-2014 at 06:42 AM.

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    I can't say it turns me on. It just feels normal to dress in women's clothes, sometimes more normal than putting on boy clothes. Even got to the point now more interested in shopping for my girl clothes and shoes. When dressed just feel better about myself and relaxed. Counted up the other day I have about 10 pairs of heels plus just bought today my first pair of stilettos, compared to about 5 pairs of guys shoes including thongs(flip flops)

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    CDRachael, yeah. Shopping for guy clothes, I couldn't care less. For girly clothes, that's a different story....

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