Quote Originally Posted by Double Sided Card View Post
Part of me says I should straight up own it and lay it out on the table when I meet a girl and adopt a frame where if she has a problem with it then the door is over there but another part of me says that I could get into some unwanted trouble by doing that and instead I should wait until I trust the girls I meet a little later into the relationship before I tell them.
I wholeheartedly believe that it is always best to be unapologetically yourself. I also believe in honesty. This doesn't mean you need to beat anyone over the head with your intimate self, & yes you should share private things only when & with whom you are comfortable enough to do so.

I happen to be a GG who accepts, loves, encourages, enjoys, & participates in my husband's crossdressing. I find him attractive in boy or girl mode, but must admit I find him *ravenously* attractive when he wears pretty things.

I have always known about my husband's desire to dress, & have always enjoyed it just as much. Rather than a deal-breaker, it made my feelings for him stronger, because it was this deep something we shared.

I know I am not exactly typical. I am a bisexual woman who has always been more attracted to femininity than masculinity. I have also always been a strong supporter of the LGBT & CD community, so this is nowhere near anything new for me. On top of that, I'm a cosmetologist, so the idea of making up & dressing my husband appeals to me on that level, too. Point is, though, I exist. And I'm not the only one.

A woman who is repelled by crossdressing is not a woman you should bother pursuing. A woman who hates this will never love you all the way. But there ARE women who can and will. Since we seem to be scarce, I would suggest not wasting time accepting anything less than someone who will accept you fully.

Keep your chin up!