I only worry about the ones that pay my mortgage and bills..........wait......none of them pay anything to support me. I decided a long time ago that I should not worry about what others think other than for them to know that I will do anything I can to help if they need something. I spend a lot of my time at home in female attire and a wig but don't usually put on full make up unless I'm going shopping or to run errands. I've had neighbors come over to borrow some moisturizer or tools or to ask if I will take care of their pets when they go out of town or ask if I will get the football that landed in my backyard or to let me know that they're watching the game and invite me over. It just doesn't seem right to ignore them by not answering the door and I won't rush into my room to change before they see me. I hate to pay for electricity so I leave my doors open (with screen doors) to let the fresh air in whenever I can so I'm exposed quite a lot. One 14 year old girl that lives a couple of houses down was going to a an event and couldn't find anything in her closet that she wanted to wear so she came over to see if she could borrow one of my blouses.
Not everyone can be normal while not being "normal" but I've found a great amount of acceptance from all of my friends and neighbors.